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But I liked this a lot. If you know me, you'll understand why. If not, well, enjoy.


The Invitation

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life's betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us to
be careful
be realistic
remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,

It doesn't interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after the night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the centre of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.

© Oriah Mountain Dreamer, from the book "The Invitation" published by HarperSanFrancisco, 1999

Date: 2003-09-16 12:14 am (UTC)
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Date: 2003-09-16 12:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Yes, I like that.

Date: 2003-09-16 12:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
That is nice - both the words and the sentiment.


Date: 2003-09-16 12:56 am (UTC)
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Just smiles broadly, I am glad that it reached you as well :)

I have found that it has followed me at different points in my life. Forgotten about, then resurfaces again to act as a reminder.

Date: 2003-09-16 04:21 am (UTC)
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That is beautiful.

The bit about betrayal hits a bit of a chord, as I'm in the process of finding out whether an old friend can cope with the fact that I'm simply not going to allow my Brother-in-Law to walk all over me, no matter how much easier it would be for everyone else.

Date: 2003-12-06 09:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I enjoyed this poem a lot. Very evocative. I take it you're into anime? If it's possible i'd liek to be added to your friend's list and woudl happily return the favor. I'm incidentally in the polyamory community, which is how I foudn your journal

Understated evocation..

Date: 2004-01-22 10:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Cheers fer the thoughts, When I spent a wee while going through Toby's site, & seeing that there's less point trying to find new friends than to turn acquaintances into some!
I'd always felt that whilst the actual process of studying English at St.A would be soul-destroying, one day, perhaps not in the distant future, I'd be able to rekindle my love for the word.s.
So again, many thanks for helping me back ontae the path!
Cheers now, Rob.

Date: 2004-05-11 01:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
That's brilliant; found you via Verdandiweaves; can I add you to my friends list?
love and blessed be

Date: 2004-08-04 01:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I've pinched this... and your transplant donor link.. and I miss your posts damnit! ~grins~

Date: 2005-11-04 06:43 pm (UTC)
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Just popped over, as this is screened, to say; Thank you for making me feel so much better t'other day! Thought you might like to know I appreciated it.

And I really, really love the poem. I may copy it and pop it on a private post.

To sumarise; Thank you! Feel free to delete, and I'll see you on the loos.
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